Friday, January 7, 2011

My Perspective on Why Relationships fail...

After seeing so many relationships fail with people, and as well as why my own off & on relationship has failed, is based solely on being honest. Once you decide to love another person, and give your heart to them, you are making a promise to protect it, and be open honest with that person you are sharing it with. I have always noticed that people will lie, even with the truth staring them back in the face. When in many cases...no matter how bad or how good, a person can truly respect a person who is honest with them. I know I CAN...but time & time again, the people I love continue to lie to me.. Straight in my face, like I dont know. That has ruined many relationships in my life, as well as other people's lives that I know. How can a person continue on in a successful relationship when your partner lies about absolutely everything. If a person is going to lie about something small, you better believe they are going to lie about something big as well. If people can come into a relationship, open and honest from the beginning there would be a lot less people hurt, wounded, and battered by unsuccessful relationships. Take it from me...please be honest with your partner... You will save yourself as well as your partner a lot less heartache and un-needed stress!

Love & Blessings.. Tia Renia...

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