Why I'snt it The Same..?

Its hard not to compare how different people treat each other... I'm not saying no one is perfect but when my teacher, who happens to be white talks, about her husband and the things he does for her, it doesn't compare to anything I have ever heard from the way a black man treats his woman... Why don't black men open the car doors for us? Why don't they take care of the household the same ways? Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about every black man in the world, but majority of them don't do what they are suppose to do. I have seen way too many black marriages, and they all seem so damn pointless. Why would I want to put myself in that situation? It boils down to the small things... How many black men would give their last to the household, and woman? Not too many I know... And they want us to treat them like Kings, and cook and clean... Oh I do not think so. No I am not giving up on black men, because ain't nothing sexier than a well put together black man... Unfortunately they come few and far between... I mean seriously... You get a hood nigga who might be able to spoil you, but look at the life you living... Who wants to risk their life for a few new pairs of heels... You get these college men, who can't keep their dicks in their pants... The Cycle continues... White men cheat... But not nearly as much as black men. Why is that? I have a son... How do I change that cycle within him? HOW?! There is no way in hell I want my son to grow up and treat a woman the way I have been treated. I'm just saying... You should see the way my teacher lights up when she speaks of her husband.... and its sad that I do not see that same glow in a lot of black women's faces as well....